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Tips to help you find a cougar to lose your virginity to

You first need to know where to find older women. Most of them are normally at their workplaces, and that present a challenge. Flirting with a sugar mummy at your workplace might be treated as harassment and therefore you need to know what works and what doesn’t. Take this process in small installments, don’t rush over things, it will backfire. Read on to see how you can impress an older lady and end up losing your virginity to her.

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You may have feared talking to an older woman as she appeared more experienced for you to handle!

You need to be extra confident

Most men are normally worried about how broke they are and this is why they shy away from older women who appear well-up and settled. However, the only way to appeal to older woman is your raw masculinity. The last thing you should do is to tread with extreme caution and end up appearing shy and inexperienced.

Pro Tip:

Remember you’re young and attractive. You need to show that cougar that you are also attracted to her!

Pay attention to your dressing

Don’t just pay attention to what you wear, focus on how you wear. You might have bought an awesome suit, but if you don’t wear it properly, it might appear like a second-hand ensemble from a local shop. Make sure you have a nice hair-cut and your facial hair is well kept. Always remember that sex is all about being attractive to the other partner.

Don’t give her all your attention

Don’t just talk to her alone and leave out other colleagues. You give her too much attention, she might end up thinking you’re becoming obsessed with her. In fact, she might think you’re too desperate for a relationship. Give her that space she needs, but again don’t completely leave her out of your Chat.

Pick a strategic time

When should you tell your potential cougar that you’re a virgin? This is another trick of the puzzle. Women who go after male virgins are always motivated by the fact that this gives them some freedom to be in control and get the kind of experience they’re looking for. Old women who date male virgins dominate that play and they are vocal of their needs. However, you need to hold back before telling your catch that you’re a virgin lest she ends up thinking that you’re only interest in sex.

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Choosing the best time for your strategy may help you!

It is best to hold off for a few dates. On the flip side, perhaps she is not interested in sex and the last thing you would want to do is to share with everyone you meet about yourself. You might think that letting her know that you’re a virgin will not affect your dating, but this might kill her interest at an early stage.

What if you’re rejected?

You are likely to meet women who might not be interested in sleeping with you because you’re a virgin. Some cougars might feel quite uncomfortable with the idea of taking someone’s virginity. Therefore, if she turns you down, this is not the time to take it personal. Try to keep your chin up, and don’t become less confident in yourself, you’re still young and attractive.

Focus on her needs

For a successful sugar mummy dating, you really need to focus on what she wants. Most cougars love mature guys. Therefore, you should learn to be the man she wants. Don’t do something that will irritate her. Let her feel honored and respected.

If you want to date a cougar, then you should focus on the tips highlighted above. First things first, don’t rush over things, hit at the right moment.

Pro Tip:

You are the man, therefore you need to be confident and attractive!

 

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