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Do Older Women Possess a Higher Sex Drive?

If you are into MILF dating, you probably won't be surprised to learn that women in their 30s and 40s are thought to have high sex drives. But are the horny cougars you have met typical of women as a whole?

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Did you know that womens' sex drives keep rising in their 40s?

Recent research suggests that Milfaholics can rejoice: the sexual appetites of Milfs are no myth. They are a fact of nature. Here's the thinking behind the claim.

As they age, Women get Better at Reaching Orgasm

One of the most striking findings in recent MILF studies has been from surveys of women in their 40 and even over 50 and daiting. As the Journal of Sexual Medicine reports, women over the age of 40 claim to reach orgasm 70 percent of the time, and that their success rate has only gone up with age.

So MILFs seem to benefit from age and experience at the moment of climax.

MILFs are Better at Telling Guys What they Want

Staying with this point about reaching orgasm more regularly, sexologists have a theory that explains the phenomenon. The idea is that as women age, they become more confident in the bedroom and know more about their bodies.

Armed with that knowledge and confidence, they feel more able to tell guys exactly what to do in order to reach orgasm.

Older Women Fantasize More than Younger Women

But it's not all about cold, hard knowledge. There's a more psychological side to MILF sex, as researchers with the Personality and Individual Differences have found. They report that women age 27-45 have more sexual fantasies than those aged from 18-26.

This might be because they are less constrained and more experienced, but it could just be a natural ageing process, as the age of MILF sex develops.

MILFs Do Actually Have More Sex

The same study looked into how often women have sex at different ages, and they came up with the most revealing statistic of all: married women in their 20s have less sex than those in their 30s and 40s.

Not only that, but the same women were starting to think outside the box. They were also more likely to dream about sleeping with other men, raising the potential for all kinds of kinky MILF dating experiences.

There Does Come a Point When Sex Drive Declines

Although these studies suggest that womens' sex drives keep rising well into their 40s, does this continue into their 50s, 60s and even 70s? The picture is mixed.

Researchers with the American Journal of Medicine looked at a sample with an average age of 67. Women at the younger end of the distribution reported the highest level of satisfaction (in their 30s and 40s), but this declined into their 50s.

Wait, Sex Could Get Better into Old Age

Before you write off any woman over 45, think again. The AJM study also found that sexual satisfaction rose again for women near the upper end of the age range.

Around 50 percent of 80 year-olds surveyed felt arousal some of the time - leading the organizers to suggest that sexual arousal continued to develop well past retirement age.

Two Key Tips for Mature Dating Fans

So, it looks like MILFs are real. Sex actually does get better after the age of 30. That's great news for sugar mummy dating fans, but how can guys who love cougars actually find sexy MILFs with endless sexual appetites?

Pro Tips:

  1. Don't Be Afraid to Approach Older Women- Whether you are at a club or a workplace, remember that the sexy cougar opposite you probably has sex on her mind.
  2. Don't Expect Commitment from Cougars- These days, MILFs can find cubs with ease. They'll probably be into you too, but that doesn't mean they're in it for the long haul. Be prepared for your horny lover to shop around.

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