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7 Top Tips for Dating a Recently Divorced Cougar

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Cougar dating has grown incredibly popular in recent years, thanks to the ease at which young men can meet mature women for sex and dating. The Internet now makes hook-ups with cougars a quick and simple process, and the rewards can be significant. The average cougar has a wealth of sexual experience, and she knows exactly what she wants in the bedroom.

But too many men make the mistake of taking a newly divorced cougar for granted. Mature women who’ve recently ended a long-term relationship can be emotional and vulnerable, and the wrong move on your part could ruin your chances of cougar dating.

Follow these seven simple tips to keep the recently divorced cougar in your life coming back for more.

1. Be Ready to Satisfy

A lot of marriages and long-term relationships break down because of a lack of sex. So if your cougar is recently divorced, the chances are she’ll be aching for some sexual attention. If you can’t keep up with her in the bedroom, she might just move onto the next young guy. So get your rest and prepare yourself for a huge amount of sex. And free up your schedule, as the demands for sex could come at any time.

2. Never Call Your Cougar a Cougar

A newly divorced cougar may want to make up for lost time in the bedroom. While this should work to your advantage as a young, virile guy, it could also work against you. No recently divorced woman of advanced years will ever want to think of herself as opportunistic, over-sexed or predatory. Unfortunately, the word “cougar” is often associated with these traits, so avoid using it at all costs — even to your friends.

3. Step Up and Be a Man

OK, so your cougar has picked you because of your youthful looks and sexual performance, but that doesn’t mean you can act like a petulant child. Don’t expect the sex to flow without putting some effort into the relationship. You should be prepared to wine and dine your beautiful cougar. And being kind, respectful and chivalrous should go without saying.

4. Be an Enigma

Let’s face it; a newly divorced cougar is not going to be short of offers of sex and dating from younger men. The chances are you will be competing with several other guys for the affection of the beautiful, mature woman you have your eyes on. She has recently gone through one of life’s most stressful events, so you will need to up your game to inspire her attention. Make an effort to be romantic and mysterious, and keep things exciting. If your divorced cougar recently jilted her ex-husband because of his laziness or predictability, she’ll show you the door in an instant if she thinks you’re the same.

5. Broaden Your Horizons

An experienced woman with a recent divorce under her belt will be determined not to waste another second in life. She will want to experience new things and live life to its fullest. This means you must also be prepared to broaden your horizons. You will need to accept the fact that your cougar's life experience will point her in directions you have never even considered. She may want to visit exotic locations; she may want the finer things in life. If you can’t demonstrate your willingness to be open to new experiences, she will look elsewhere very quickly.

6. Let the Compliments Flow

A lot of divorced women have low self-esteem; often as a result of neglect or abuse from their former husband. This could make the cougar in your life a little stand-offish and nervous at times. It’s your job to build up her confidence, and the best way to do this is by showering her with compliments. Whether you’re in the bedroom or heading out for the night, make sure you mention the little things, such as how great her hair looks or how fantastic her outfit is.

7. Agree on the Boundaries from the Start

Newly divorced women are often very keen not to repeat the mistakes that cost them their relationship. To ensure that you don’t overstep the line or scare off your cougar before you’ve had a chance to develop a relationship, it’s important to agree on the boundaries straight away. How often will you meet? Are you both willing to commit emotionally? Are there any rules on seeing other people?

Finding a sexy cougar who you connect with is never easy, so follow these top tips if you don’t want to lose her before things really get started.

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