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6 Sings that Suggest You Are a Cougar

Cougars have been described as older women dating younger guys generally at an age gap of about 10 years or more. If you are in this category, then you’re a cougar.

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What about cougars having an aggressive flirting scope?

However, there’s more that defines a cougar dating younger guys. How you consider your age, appearance and tastes may just be a few hints that you’re becoming a cougar.

Read the following points to know more of these.

#1 Take a Look at Your Make Up

Evolutionary psychology has it that when judging a woman’s desirability, physical attractiveness takes center stage than it is when evaluating men’s desirability.

Therefore, older men may still be desirable to a large population of women judging by their level of intelligence, income and humor. However, women are majorly judged on how attractive they look.

Hence, this becomes clear that with age, you will amp up your makeup routine in an attempt to hide the signs of aging, which make you look less attractive.

You will realize that as you age, you will have more foundation along with structuring creams or shades to give your face a smooth look. You will not forget to put up a lipliner, which make your lips appear fuller, and a brow pencil to amp up your eyebrows.

#2 Are You Attracted to a Young Guy?

If you are attracted to that young and attractive guy at the bar who seems like he had a fake ID to get it, then you are just about to become a cougar. This is not a crime, may be it makes you feel the ecstasy you felt when you were in the 20s.

If you find yourself attracted to a younger guy, don’t feel awkward, just know that your becoming a cougar, which is not bad.

#3 When You Look Younger Than You Really Are

This is mainly when most of your friends and peers think you are younger but you know it’s not the case. This would imply that you’ve taking care of your body and have beaten the sings of aging.

Pro-Tip: AGE IS JUST A NUMBER

You may end up faking your age. Don't feel bad about it, just enjoy the ride! You will be confident to flirt with younger guys and apply that makeup so you look attractive and sexy.

When you begin to think or consider age as just but a number and it’s neither a challenge, just know that you’ve embraced change. This will not affect your inner self and you will be on your way to becoming a cougar.

#4 Feverish Flirting

Mature dating has the most experienced flirting. Cougars have an aggressive flirting and have had years of studying the art. If you have been doing this lately with younger guys, it’s now definite you are becoming a cougar.

#5 Lots of Confidence

An older woman doesn’t really care about the approval of others, and besides, with the great care with your looks and attractiveness, you know you are attractive. Most cougars are successful and don’t have to depend on a man. This is perhaps the major source of their confidence and it makes them even more attractive and enticing.

#6 How You Dress

A cougar stereotype is a woman in clothes that are too young, tight for her, and tacky fabrics. However, this is not always the case. A woman at any age can dress in unflattering and tasteless manner.

Irrespective of your age, how you dress will greatly depend on your style as well as personal sense.

Pro-Tip: DRESSING CODE

Although most women wear push-up bras, older women often find them quite useful as their breasts sag with age.

While it might be easy to know you are a cougar, knowing at what point you start becoming one and what really defines you as a cougar might be hard. Just go through what you’ve been doing recently and you will find a few signs that might suggest you are already having a cougar life.

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