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What Types of Men are Cougars Attracted To?

Mature dating can be a journey of excitement and discovery for a young man. Unfortunately, however, snagging a cougar isn’t always easy. This is because the average Milf has a very specific type of guy in mind for casual dating.

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If you chat to Milfs a lot, you’ll know that they’re often confident, straight to the point and absolutely sure about what they want from a relationship. Cougars are looking for some specific types of men; and if you’re one of them, you could be in with a chance of a mind-blowing experience.

#1 The Artistic Type

Artistic types are generally emotional souls who smoulder with intrigue and vulnerability. They may also have a flamboyant side that oozes confidence. The ability to create art is often a powerful aphrodisiac, which is why so many cougars get drawn in.

Of course, you don’t need to be a master painter or sculptor to be regarded as an artist. Perhaps you’re a bit of a musician, or maybe you write a little poetry from time to time. All of these traits will add to your enigmatic charm, which should stand you in good stead with the milf of your dreams.

Unfortunately, not all artistic types will find snagging a cougar easy. Artists tend to have very unreliable sources of income, which means they’re often broke. A milf probably wants to enjoy the finer things in life, without having to subsidise her man.

There’s also the issue of drive and ambition to consider. Many cougars like to know that their younger man has a clear career path in front of him.

Pro-Tip: Make the Most of your Artistic Traits

Because everyone has at least one. However, don’t make your love of art the be all and end all of your life.

2. The Nerd

There is a generational difference in play right now that has rarely been seen in history. The advent of the online world and the ever-changing nature of technology now means that some older people are a little out of touch.

So what better way to impress the cougar in your life than by demonstrating your knowledge of technology and science?

A lot of Milfs have come out of unhappy relationships with men who were obsessed with their own career. It can therefore be something of a relief to date a guy whose only concern is how fast their laptop is running.

While the ability to fix your cougar’s computer or introduce her to the online gaming world could work in your favour, don’t let your nerdery grow to the point of social ineptitude. Always keep one foot firmly planted in the real world.

3. The Player

Some older women love the challenge of taming a lothario. Guys who like to sleep around and view women as conquests can be very attractive to cougars. It is the combination of self-confidence, arrogance and sizzling sex appeal that does it for the older lady — as well as the prospect of taming the young buck for the first time.

If you consider yourself a player, don’t get too cocky. While your lifestyle might be attractive at first, it could become a little tiresome after a few weeks of dating.

And never lose sight of how milfs perceive you. They may immediately write you off as a long-term prospect, even if you’re keen to take a relationship to the next level.

4. The Successful Businessman

Few things are more attractive to cougars than a man with drive and ambition. The desire to get ahead in life and provide for loved ones can be a powerful aphrodisiac, so use it to your advantage.

If you’re used to networking, making major business decisions and influencing people, you’ll be able to use these traits during the dating phase of your cougar relationships. Older women are often turned on by what they hear, so use your fine-tuned communication skills to woo your lady.

Pro-Tip: Regarding Achievements & Possessions

Never use your achievements or possessions to impress women. They will speak for themselves, but purposely drawing attention to them could make your appear vain and narcissistic.

There is no handbook when it comes to dating sexy cougars. If you don’t fall into one of these categories of men, don’t worry. Taking a few traits from each type can improve your chances of success with the Milf you have your eye one.

Be your best self, and you’ll find attention from cougars comes naturally.

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